Hi Linda, could you please share my dilemma on your page. I'm getting married this November to a man I have been with for a little over a year. He is a great guy and I love him so much. But the only problem is he said over his dead body will he ever go down on a woman. He said he has never done it before and never will. It wouldn't have been a problem but I got used to that treatment with my last boyfriend and I don't know if I can live the rest of my life without it. I don't want to end up cheating on him. Is there a way I can convince him to change his mind and if not, what do I do?
My answer: Will you marry me Linda? It depends. On what? Will you go down there? Of course! Alright then, I will marry you! And if I say no? You will have to find another woman to marry!
For me, it's not up for debate...inyé gán gán léyo. How will you not go down there? It's not my portion in Jesus name, amen! Yes, it's that serious! lol
But we are all different. Our fathers and grandfathers probably never went down on their women and they lived 'happily ever after'..so I'm sure you will be fine. *cough*
Any advise for our dear friend?
